Mirja spent a year abroad in Germany

Mirja from Montenegro spent her exchange in Hamburg, Germany

It was my big dream to live in Germany. The language has played a big role. They say that German is one of the most difficult languages to learn and that's why not many people speak it. So, it’s an advantage when you know this language. I learned German in school before I went on exchange, but I wasn't that good at it. It was my wish to become really fluent and comfortable speaking German. When you live in the country and are around Germans and the language every day it’s much easier!

In the beginning the language was a challenge. I was a bit shy to speak German. Also, it’s normal when you live together in a family, that not every day is perfect. With my family at home, we have small quarrels all the time The important thing is to talk about it and to be open and forgiving to each other.

My advice for future exchange students is: Talk to your host family about everything that happens, the good stuff, the bad or ordinary stuff, it doesn’t matter. Just talk about everything. It's your family for almost a year. Talk about what you did in school, your family back home, what's happening in your home country. Your ideas and plans, where you want to go, what you would like to experience. The key is just good communication, being open and having an interest in each other’s lives.

My time in Germany was really, really beautiful. I couldn't have dreamt it up any better. I believe that I am a better person now and more openminded than before. About my host family, I can only say the best things. They have this great love. The family rituals in Germany are completely different from Southeastern Europe. We really liked to play board and card games together and had many barbecues in the garden.

Because this year was so good, I want to go abroad again, for studying and university. I know that I don't want to stay in my country, but always go back of course.

But the next step is for my host family to come visit me in Montenegro.

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